Is the meaning of a child only a “girl child”? If not so, then why do all schemes designed for the so-called welfare of children only focus on girls more than boys? Why this gender bias against boys? Almost all educational welfare schemes target girls only. So, boys face double jeopardy. On one hand, there is no helping hand available for boys in education, yet pervert social mindsets expect themto be the financial torch-bearers of the family and this puts a lot of pressure on the male gender in general. Male hatred is so rampant in the society that even a suggestion to introduce reservation for boys in schools where their numbers have seriously dropped, draws flak from the society.
Shocked? Baffled? Fail to believe you ears? Well, as it is famous saying, “Truth is stranger than fiction” and the recent turn of events just validates this statement.
Aamir Khan, the famous and legendary actor of Bollywood who carries nicknames like “The Perfectionist” and has the reputation of delivering some of the finest films and finest performances in his 20 odd years of film career has ruined his reputation and under the name of “Satyamev Jayate”, he is spreading fear and rumors in the society.
Why this drama of female feticide – issue raised in the first episode of Satyamev Jayate – is false and a hoax?
The International Association of Masculinists' denounces India's new gender biased divorce laws.
Introduction:
The International Association of Masculinists' ( Masculinists.Net ) is a Men's Rights Organization serving tens of thousands of Masculinist Activists around the world with more than two thousand in India alone. It provides numerous resources for the Global Community of Masculinists and it is dedicated to creating a world where Men are seen as worthy of kindness, respect and love.
India's new gender biased divorce laws:
India has just seen tabled before the Cabinet, an amendment to the Hindu Marriage Act and the Special Marriage Act entitled Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill, 2010. This bill sets human rights in India back decades and perhaps hundreds of years. Masculinists spoke against this bill as far back as 2010 informing the Indian Government of the gross degrees of misandry ( hatred of males ) this bill supports. Among the more disgusting forms of misandry this bill would enact we find the following:
Subject: Strongly condemning the upcoming Marriage Laws (amendment) Bill
Introduction:
Confidare Research is the education and research wing of Confidare Consultancy that specializes in dealing with problems of men.
Confidare Research strongly condemn the upcoming “Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill” that was supposed to be tabled today before the Cabinet.
This bill is a further evidence of the growing misandry (male hatred) in the society and how the society treats men as disposable entities. Even in this modern age when we talk of Gender Equality, the stereotypical patriarchal notion that the financial responsibility of a family should lay on a husband still prevails in the society, and this pervert social mindset is the root cause of abuse of men, especially husbands in a marriage.
In such a situation, where men are already burdened with so much of load, another law which makes divorce extremely costly for them is thoroughly unwelcome.
Confidare Men’s Rights Community Centre is the first of its kind established in India, for providing guidance and coaching for distressed and victimized men. Confidare Community Centre is run by 4 men’s rights activists, who have been associated with the men’s rights movement for the past 5+ years and have cumulatively looked into more than 5000 cases of men facing harassment in marriages.
Confidare Community Centre, currently operating out of Bangalore, provides a platform to distressed men to enable themselves psychologically to deal with stressful situations arising out of a bad marriage for men. Simple techniques of acceptance, self-awareness and psychological empowerment can perform wonders in one’s life that enables a person to deal with a stressful situation powerfully.
Just have a look at this pic below. These are the demands of a wife in a maintenance case. This is how women are extorting men and courts are facilitating it as well. Do not tolerate abuse of men. Raise your voice against men being treated as "FREE ATM MACHINES". Recently, on CNN-IBN, advocate Poornima Advani was shouting at the top of her lungs - "Do not convert marriage into employment" and was trying to uphold the sanctity of marriage while refusing to part with husband's property. My question to her and her supporters - "If women themselves think of marriage as an easy access to luxurious lifestyle and easy money, why should men be punished for that?"
As I was returning to home from office on a fine evening, and Sonu Nigam’s “Best Songs” CD playing in my car, I just could not help but take note of the lyrics of a very popular song playing at that time. Listening to the lyrics, my rationale was irked to think about it – and the question was “Are our social norms domestically violent for men?” We will revisit the statement as we proceed.
Before that I must mention the lyrics here that disturbed the peaceful waters of the pond. A brief background about the lyrics:
The lyrics are from a war-movie titled “LOC – Line Of Control”, that depicts the lives of Indian soldiers posted at the Indo-Pak border. This song is from a sequence wherein a man, a soldier with the Indian Army, who is newly married, has to go back to border as war has broken out, and as he prepares to leave, his wife sings this song and the man replying to it.
As I think about the today's theme - it reminds me of Thomas Edison, the man who invented the electric bulb. He had made a famous statement "Things are 99% perspiration, 1% inspiration"
Same applies to men's rights movement as well. It is a matter of constant awareness campaign and hitting at our opponents and proponents of male abuse. Contrary to popular belief, it is 3 times easier to abuse a male than a female because males have no support structure and male abuse is accepted by the society as social service.
As I have repeatedly mentioned in my articles that cultures have deceived men, acting as vultures. Men have been used as the FREE ATM MACHINE, the UNPAID BODYGUARD, the de-facto PROTECTOR and PROVIDER, etc.by cultures and in the process have been reduced to disposable entities. Their abuse is considered a social service now.
And men, the way they are, are in a great way responsible for this. They rarely challenge or question conventions, traditions, histrionics and stereotypes thrust upon them. They do not feel the need to fight for their rights - only a handful of them are doing though scores are getting victimized. They do not demand for their space in the society and accept things as offered to them.
To this effect, today I take the example of Skandagupta - the great emperor of India. His stepmother has him sent to Ujjain so that her son can be made the emperor. He obeys her. But then the Huns attack India under the leadership of Attila the Hun. The army of Skandagupta calls him back as they needed his expertise.
