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And we have yet another social service done today. All men blamed of either being guilty of marital rape or being pedophiles. It's become a fashion to abuse men based on whims and fancies and create sensation out of it. While a tabloid talks of educated men committing marital rape, we have news that some airlines do not allow unaccompanied children near men suspecting them to be pedophiles.
But no one thinks of those men who are at the receiving end of the abuse or are falsely accused or still worse, sometimes they are accused, when they themselves are victims of the crime alleged. I don't think it can get bad either. As a men's rights activist, my heart burns to see the despicable state men are in currently universally. One man may do a crime, but the price is paid by the entire clan. And the price is paid by the clan even when the woman does the crime.
Now let me set certain records straight first. Whenever there is a report of a single man being accused in a rape case, it can be straight away disposed off as a false case prima facie for the simple reason that the rape can never happen without the woman participating in it. This is due to a biological reason that if the woman is not willing to have sex, then the process of union is impossible or very difficult and a single man simply cannot perform the act without getting aroused and willing to participate in the intercourse. Which clearly indicates the ‘rape' as alleged has never happened! It was a consensual sex affair-turned-rape and not only the accused man is being punished for a crime he did not commit, the entire clan of men (read educated men) is passed off as rapists. This is nothing short of a hate speech and I fail to understand why a case under Section 153-A of the IPC should not be registered against the tabloid, the reporter and their sources for not only misleading the society but also for making a ‘hate speech' against men.
And hence in the above light, the term ‘marital rape' itself is a misnomer as since the accused here is a husband, a single person, can never cause the rape. And if the woman had so many issues, why did she marry the man when she did not want to have sex with him? This skewed concept of marital rape is actually raping men and I ask the readers today, "What will they do if a man is raped?"
Perhaps the easiest task on earth is to blame someone and a task easier than the easiest is to blame a man and still easier task is for the society to use the same blame to deny men their basic rights. And they call it a man's world!!!
Again coming back to the case of men being denied seats on airlines near unaccompanied children suspecting those men to be pedophiles, that notion has also been developed mostly by mothers only who are also estranged wives entangled in marital disputes with their ex-husbands and deny visitation rights to father on a plea of the father being a pedophile and child abuser. And still they call it a man's world, where all notions about a man are designed and developed by a woman and a man's freedom is also decided by a woman, as to whether he should sleep the next night on bed or prison cell after sleeping with her!!!
Its time people re-design their gender concepts.
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