Conservative, orthodox and stringent to flex societal mindsets and structures have led to equally rigid hardwiring of men and their mindset to such an extent that they have associated all their happiness to one thing - marriage. Since childhood, apart from being castrated emotionally, men are taught only one thing - You will be happy only if you are married.

Over years of hardwiring, now men have started to believe that only marriage can give them solace and hence the same men have drafted numerous laws to protect marriage aka sorry, protect the women whom they marry. But in their overplayed bid to protect women, forgot to protect their own brethren aka the men.

Their hardwired thinking process has led them to wrongly associate their happiness with marriage only and think other men who are not married or having bad marriages are unhappy. Especially when men victimized in bad marriages fight for their due basic rights, other men think, they are doing this since they are unhappy in their marriages.

What these men do not realize is that those who have already faced bad marriages and vindictive wives and cannot undo what they have went through and are actually fighting for those lesser morons who are still unaware of the price paid by men for bad marriages.

Men still think they are incomplete without a woman, whereas women don't think that way. And that is the reason if a woman wants to take a man for a ride in a marriage; it is very easy for her to do so by filing false cases of abuse against the man and milk him like a FREE ATM MACHINE because women know the weakness of men and their urge to remarry once their current marriage does not work.

This is the reason most men end up bowing down to demands made by women in divorce proceedings and negotiations and this escapist mentality of men has set in wrong trends like,

1. Men are abusive in their marriage; hence agree to pay for false allegations also.
2. It is customary for a man to pay alimony/maintenance to his estranged wife irrespective of the reason of marriage failure.
3. If you want to break your marriage, just cry hoarse and your man will give up.

Additionally, the system - police, lawyers and judiciary - are also made up of men and somehow condemn those men for having bad marriages and thus go all out in screwing the men and pampering the women.

This women pamperment tendency has given wicked women a very upper hand in marriages these days and many just run it as a full time profession to make quick bucks by taking advantage of the tendency of men to remain married, come what may.

A pertinent question comes up here, Are Happiness and Marriage Synonymous? An answer to which is an imminent call of the day in wake of increasing torture of men in marriages.

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Mithun  - Men to be Happy     |124.125.209.xxx |27-05-2009 00:41:32 I hope, One Day Men will realize that its not Marriage, or anything outside of them, that should be linked so tightly for their own happiness. And that day, Men will attain the true nirvana... Tathastu... Reply | Quote 0   0

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