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Yesterday I'd talked about the importance of giving women a taste of their own medicine who wants to threaten men with false allegations and control them and we also saw in the described movie scene how the woman runs away from there, when confronted with her own medicine. Now today I will present the analysis of the success of our hero.

What was so special about his behavior that made his therapy of giving back the medicine work? I will put the story here once again for ready reference,

The hero of the movie spots a beautiful girl in the mall (who is also the heroine of the movie). When the girl spots him staring at her, she decides to teach the man a lesson and starts shouting that the man is teasing her and threatens the man of a complaint of eve-teasing. Initially the man is taken aback and does not know how to react. Then the manager of the mall comes and tries to neutralize the situation. The hero makes a very innocent face as if telling, "Can you think I can do such a thing?" The manager is confused and tries to pacify the heroine. She abuses the hero and leaves the place fuming.

Angry, she picks up a dress or two and rushes towards the trial room. But unfortunately for her, the room was already occupied by a man who was semi-naked. Seeing this, the heroine loses her senses totally. This is spotted by the hero who catches her red-handed and then makes a ruckus out of it. Again the manager comes but this time the roles are reversed. This time the girl makes an innocent face. Finally again the manager pacifies both of them and the heroine leaves the place fuming.

When he was blamed (albeit falsely) for teasing her, he was well aware that though innocent he will still face some wrath (being a man) so he was prepared for it and thus did not try to act logically by making an attempt to explain the situation, because he was well aware that the perpetual question, "Why will a woman lie?" will be on its way to strike off his seemingly ‘logical defense'.

Instead, he made a very funny, sweet and smiling face. This gesture, though it did not offer any reasonable explanation, mellowed down the manager and put both him and the girl into thinking mode. So the lesson to be learned here is, make your opponents work, let them go into analysis mode. This will eat away a part of their energy and give you the requisite space to defend (or offend) your situation well.

Secondly, he did not give up on being ‘acquitted'. Rather, he was on the lookout for an opportunity to ‘teach' the girl a lesson and on the first chance; pounced upon her and accused her of teasing a man. The allegation put by him was seemingly unacceptable and reasonably non-believing from the point of view of existing social constructs.

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