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You blame Him; Who Blames You? PDF Print E-mail
Written by Virag   
Sunday, 21 June 2009 16:37

As I think of this theme and its content, it reminds me of a joke about the Indian Police force. The joke goes like this:

There was a competition amongst the police forces of the US, Russia, Japan and India. They were supposed to go inside a huge cage and catch the bear inside.

First the US police go and uses a lot of tricks and tactics to trap the bear into a smaller cage and locks it. Operation time - 2 hrs.

Then the Russian police force goes inside and uses its own technology and sophisticated weapons to overpower the bear and finally traps it. Operation time - 3 hrs.

Follows the Japanese force and uses its own traditional histrionics to exhaust the beast and nabs it in 2.5 hrs.

Finally goes the Indian Police force. But even after 10 hrs it does not come out. Other police forces get wary and go inside.

And the scene inside was, that the Indian Police force was beating a monkey black and blue and yelling at it, "Tell that you are a bear".

Well, it may sound like a joke, but it is actually true of the Indian police force. Being a man's rights activist and being associated with a prominent men's rights organization Save Indian Family Foundation, such behavior from the police is a brutal and harsh reality, more than being a joke.

And again here, we have the famous case of Bollywood Actor, Shiney Ahuja being accused of raping his maid. Here also he is being lambasted at because he confessed sex with his maid to police. To the same police force that beats a monkey to make him confess that he is a bear. Based on that confession everyone is nailing upon not only Shiney Ahuja but the entire male gender in general.

The issue is far more serious and grave than it appears to be. The so-called police confession of sex is just an excuse. Actually the society readily believes that men are perpetrators or crime, aggressors and criminals whereas women are gullible, innocent and docile. And not only that, prominent film personalities and fashion critics have even gone to the extent of saying that Anupam Ahuja (Shiney's wife) supporting her husband is actually a sign of her weakness with the argument that because Shiney has been caught cheating on his wife so many times that she felt ‘ignored' from him and now when he is trapped, the wife feels ‘needed' and jumped to his support and the celebrity does not respect such women.

To be very frank, I am in total disagreement with the ‘hollow' views of the celebrity. First thing that she needs to know is that wives know their husbands in and out. And know very well, when to support their husbands and when not to. And there was absolutely no reason for the celebrity to paint other husbands as ‘cheating' and ‘abusive'. It only showed that she wanted a reason to unleash her male hatred and this time she based her hatred on the ‘police confession'!!!

Such behavioral patterns are not surprising. Abuse of males is invisible and to some extent acceptable to the society. The level of trust on males is so despicably low that the moment a woman files a complaint against a male; his basic rights are also infringed, ignored even if he's proven innocent later.

Such male hatred can never address problems, it can only increase them for anyone having any resentment against will use a woman against him and ruin his life. And all this happens because blames on males are a easy way to ruin his life. But who takes the responsibility for the blame?

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jinesh zaveri  - Ans: Males     |59.182.48.xxx |21-06-2009 22:27:40
Ever seen a male supporting another otherwise? No they welcomingly get fooled by the women and worst they get used and
are termed as users by them.
IndianLaw   |84.12.90.xxx |23-06-2009 04:57:04
As per Today's Indian Law, "WOMEN kare vo Pyar, MEN kare vo Balatkar !"

Walk-up India ! Walk-up !!
Nadia   |99.141.111.xxx |24-06-2009 19:20:44
I know you are angry and that women may have used you. But have you considered the poor lot of women who have to deal
with men with no resources? Women are truly the laborers. Our bodies something men desire, our brains while connected to
the bodies are ignored so men can get off. Being able to express ourselves has not saved many lives. You envy the one
thing that women have. How much more respect do you think you deserve? So sorry you had to deal with a bitch, but being
a woman is hard because we have to be protected by and protected from men. Take men out of the equation and the world is
a much safer place. The pain you put us through you can't even feel..aren't you lucky? Ok so women are able to
'complain' about simple things and not be seen as even less than what they are already seen as. Big deal. Bitch about
the parking spot and stop making such a big deal out of it. Everything is set up in your favor. If you want to complain
about simple things on top of that, you end up sounding more like a spoiled child than He-Man.
Virag  - You are the problem     |122.167.92.xxx |27-06-2009 08:39:05
This self victimizing ability of women is what is the reason, men's problems are ignored. Men do not women through pain.
Women put themselves through pain because of their own indecisiveness and blame men. Oh ya, the world will be a much
safer place, haha, then why do you want men to protect you? You want men to protect you from men? What an irony? You do
not trust one man against another? Shows your mental level. My GET WELL SOON WISHES are to you.
Anonymous   |117.201.11.xxx |27-06-2009 19:36:02
//Our bodies something men desire//

Nadia
You women believe so and start selling your bodies!! Is it not true that
women long for multiple orgasms?
Anyways
We all respect women not out of lust. What we condemn the degradation of women
in the name of empowerment. Sexually active women are exploited to file false cases to ruin the Family System. Wife
centric laws are churned out as weapons of Family Destruction aided by dysfunstional Judiciary and corrupt police by
some disgruntled personally screwed up radical feminists.

Do you know with such laws in place western countries are
experiencing Teenage Prgs, and Mass teen abortions?
muthyam  - take my critics are better than your friends   |218.248.69.xxx |03-07-2009 19:58:53
Ever since the creation man supported woman unless poison injected by woman.
There is no man without woman and there is
no woman without man and removing man from the equation destroys the complete humanity and as the other way true. One
woman ditched a man would anyway depends on other man not on a woman. Through out ages the wars have happend because men
listened to stupidity of woman. Woman know how to make . Men live for their ego is misused by woman and
ultimately the punishment would be to men and men are seen as villans. These things as a woman you can never understand,
you better do not reply. it is a waste.
bhu  - Well said.   |80.218.205.xxx |27-06-2009 12:58:48
What is wrong in supporting a long trustful partner. Who are these celebrities to comment on another person's personal
life. It just shows their low profile.
SVK   |122.167.220.xxx |28-06-2009 16:31:23
such attitude and instances have sent back women to Talibanic rules around the world in the past. A liberal Indian
social system probably went into suppression of women due to such maniacs who must have destroyed families in the name
of women empowerment. so I am sure soon we will be back to those days of keeping women in darkness and slavery if these
idiotic self proclaimed lipstick feminists bitches wont understand reality and abuse the position of women in society to
meet their own sinister designs. Women are the greatest enemies to women.
venu   |59.96.107.xxx |09-07-2009 18:33:40
In most rape cases, only when the girl/woman is caught red-handed, its termed as rape.

this is can be said to be true
in 95% of the rape cases where only one male is involved, except in gangrape & aducted rape cases.
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