| Love, if SHE wants; Lust if HE wants |
|
|
|
| Written by Virag | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Thursday, 25 June 2009 17:10 | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
|
Katie Price aka Jordan demands sex 15 times from her boyfriend in 1 hour and it becomes news and is reported in DNA. And that too as a very scintillating news and people have mostly forgotten it as well. Now just imagine the scenario reversed. Had the boyfriend made a similar demand? In all probability the girl would have complained against her boyfriend and he would have been arrested and the entire media would have painted the entire clan of men as sex hungry maniacs and that men look for only sex in a relationship and it is lust that drives men in a relationship. So what is the girl doing here? Demanding sex 15 times in one hour in open public and embarrassing the boyfriend. Is she not a sex hungry maniac, looking for only sex in a relationship and only lust driving her? But nowhere has it been projected in this way. Again, there can be a counter argument that, if the boyfriend was uncomfortable, why did he not complain? That was because he knew that complaining is of no use, he being a man. If he'd complained that his girlfriend was demanding ‘extra sex', he would have been labeled as impotent and told to submit to his girlfriend. Surprised? Welcome to reality. That's the way our society is conditioned. Unconditioned support to anything a woman desires (considering them to be weak) and put conditions on anything that a man desires (presuming them to be strong). Anything that a woman desires is considered as her right and anything that a man desires is taken a reason to portray his might. And the price of this social conditioning is paid by weak men. There problems are justified, their pains are invalidated and the general stereotypic assumption is applied to them and their desires are also subject to condemnation and conditioning. Men, however, fail to realize this reality and continue to live in a dreamland. This is the reason they never realize the need to fight for men's rights till victimized. Even after being victimized they look for an escape route rather than indulging in activism for their rights. No wonder, if "Love, if SHE wants; Lust if HE wants".
Quote this article on your siteTo create link towards this article on your website, copy and paste the text below in your page. Preview : Powered by QuoteThis © 2008
Powered by !JoomlaComment 3.26
3.26 Copyright (C) 2008 Compojoom.com / Copyright (C) 2007 Alain Georgette / Copyright (C) 2006 Frantisek Hliva. All rights reserved." |
|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Related Articles: |
|---|
|
Sneak A Peek
|
|












