Before I get into the actual theme of the article, I will narrate, in brief, a typical scene in a romantic Bollywood movie.

Raj, the hero of the movie, is living his life just like any other ordinary boy till he chances upon Simran with whom he falls in love at first sight and also gives her a name from his side - Senorita. What follows after that, is anyone's imagination. Raj does everything to gain Senorita's attention and creates situations to be around her.

Simran initially does not like him, but slowly starts liking him, since Raj is handsome, smart, charming, naughty and attractive. However, just like any other ordinary girl, she does not reveal herself rather feigns discomfiture at Raj's nigh. However, this behavior of hers does not disappoint Raj who accepts this as a challenge to enter Simran's heart; who has already entered his heart with a virtue where she has least contribution from her side (her beauty), exactly as predicted by Simran who wants Raj to struggle to prove himself before she gives her heart to him.

Men are supposed to fight to get the woman they love, while the woman will go with the man who impresses her to the best of his efforts and capability. However, what men do not realize is the flip side of this behavioral pattern. The man, since he has already not only fallen in love with the girl, but also expressed it, without knowing the girl, does not know what he is entering into.

While the girl, exactly knows not only the depth of the man's love, but also about his nature, thought process, positives, negatives, is already placed in a better position not only to take an informed decision about the man, but also knows how to control him and make him work for her good.

Whilst, for the man, when finally he wins her over, feels victorious, heroic and chivalrous (having won his love over other men), the mystery called WOMAN unfolds and he slowly starts discovering the negative shades of her persona (which were already present) for which he is not prepared. Slowly he starts doubting his own decision about the woman and this dislike develops into an implicit frustration which reflects on the relationship as well.

Ultimately, it is the man who is considered responsible for the failing relationship since he gets projected as violent, non-cooperative and someone who has changed. The woman also feels that the man used to give her more attention when he was wooing her and she having been wooed, the man is no longer interested in her. Again, here men are projected as non-committal in their relationships. All this can be well prevented only if men are more responsible and thoughtful before falling into love and going overboard to woo the woman. It is important to "Look before you leap and learn before you love".

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Anonymous   |115.187.54.xxx |30-07-2009 16:23:18 As "The Predatory Female" said: They ALL dump you sooner or later! Every so-called romantic relationship with a woman eventually dies. It's inevitable. A woman may stay with a guy to leach off of him until she finally drives him to his grave, but she left emotionally long before. Always remember a woman NEVER loves a man. Read the afore-mentioned book. Women HATE men! No exceptions. Remember: ALL women hate ALL men ALL of the time! (most of them can keep it hidden for long enough.) This is a CARDINAL RULE! If you can't accept it, you've already lost the game. You're rat-fucked! You might as well just give up and go hang yourself by getting married! You can't deal with women safely because we aren't playing by the same rules. One must keep in mind that the three primary characteristics of All women are as follows: 1) Immoral (or amoral, if you prefer) 2) Dishonest 3) Selfish Many other adjectives would apply, but these three are the main attributes of women. Since this is true, and the laws are on their side, a man can't hope to break even in any dealings with women. It's impossible. Here's going for the jugular: Every time you are humping and grinding and snorting like a rutting pig on top of a woman thinking you are SUCH a stud (in all fairness, you probably are NOT) she is: 1) Bored 2) Faking it 3) Disgusted 4) Glad she took her pills first 5) Fantasizing about ur milkman 6) Fantasizing about a new car 7) Fantasizing about the butch lesbian that drilled her last week with a ten-inch strap-on for six hours Laughing inside about your pitifully small penis 9) Comparing you unfavorably to any one of her previous two-hundred partners 10) Wishing you would go even faster and trigger and have a massive coronary 11) Fantasizing about the neighbor's German Shepherd 12) Thinking about how your deodorant just ain't making it Sorry to burst your bubble. I've ... Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |115.187.54.xxx |30-07-2009 16:26:15 Continued... Sorry to burst your bubble. I've heard this from women. It's all a sick joke. You are NOT Don Juan, and they don't view you as such. In her mind, you are a disgusting, smelly pig, and you are invading her body with that.....thing. As Esther Vilar pointed out, a woman views the male erection as being GROTESQUE! Her words. I have told women this, and they have AGREED! They don't like YOU, or your tallywacker! I am done here. Reply | Quote 0   0

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