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Men’s Issues – A needle in haystack PDF Print E-mail
Written by Virag   
Sunday, 05 July 2009 19:10

Problems and issues are a part and parcel of life. Whether acceptable or not, but it's a fact that it's the problems of life that form our greatest lessons and those who view problems as stepping stones achieve heights in life. Similarly, in life and society, both men and women have their share of problems, some overlap, some are exclusive. However, the degree of sensitization of men's problems and women's problems is in stark misbalance.

Under the barb and paradoxical veil of creating awareness about women's problems (due to the inherent sympathy that women enjoy), the media has blasted the society with so much anti-male views that misandry has conquered the minds of the societies like a virus which is self-multiplying.

And in this exercise, men's problems went into oblivion like a needle in a haystack. Moreover the increasing leniency of media towards women criminals and increasing hatred towards accused men has cornered men to such an extent that not only men who are victimized are committing suicides in large numbers (in fact double than women), but also unaffected men (at least they consider themselves to be such by living in a world of denial) find it very difficult to support such men.

Because these men think, abusing men is a social service and supporting men is a crime. And this thought has been embedded into their psyche, not only by the emotional castration that men are made to undergo since the age of 6, but also by the continuous blasting on women's issues into media and a very negligent mention of men's issues and that too after a lot of activism and street shows by men's rights activists.

In fact, the situation is so bad, that as a men's rights activist, whenever I blog about men's issues and post it, people in the society start talking of women's issues!!! This is a very poor show of insecurity on their part and conclusively proves how hollow are women's issues. And what big a myth is the concept of Women's torture that it comes to picture only to suppress the awareness about men's issues so that men can be castrated for eternity and women can enjoy the fruits of self-imposed victimhood.

Women's issues are rather used as a tool to extort men and treat them as FREE ATM MACHINES. And the irony of the matter is that only affected men understand this psyche, unaffected men (at least they consider themselves to be such by living in a world of denial) think, "What's the harm in that?"

Though rampant in numbers and deep in statistics, because of the above jeopardy, men's issues are like a needle in the haystack. Everyone knows there's a needle but no idea how to locate it merely because it's next to impossible. Similarly, everyone knows men have issues but either do not want to address them or simply do not have the guts to address them.

While finding needle in a haystack, can be a daunting task, however, if men drop the urge to protect women at the cost of other men, men's rights activism is a cake walk then, but only if men drop the urge to protect women at the cost of other men.

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