In continuation with my arguments in Look before you leap; Learn before you Love, wherein I have warned men from initiating relationships without knowing their lady love, I will today tell how does the practice not only harms men, but also sets dangerous social trends. As the great men of society have been bestowed upon with titles like the Protector and the Provider which has formed the crux of the male identity since centuries, it also brings another identity trait and that being of an Initiator.

The concept of initiation actually comes from the existing male identity of a Protector and a Provider and the expectation of Responsibility arising from therein. Because it is the man who's supposed to don the roles mentioned, he also assumes the inherent and implicit role of an initiator.

It is not uncommon to see a man initiating relationships (although there have been exceptions). It is also not uncommon for the society to expect so from the man. Because of the initiatives taken by the man, the turmoil in the relationship is also attributed to the man who is held responsible for the relationship failure and is penalized based on assumptions.

Already the mistake committed by the man by exhibiting the Raj Syndrome explained in Look before you leap; Learn before you Love; lands him in an unanticipated situation and he exhibits frustration which is considered as violence from the man and not accepted. In such a situation even if the woman is guilty, gets the compensation in terms of sympathy and otherwise; while the initiator is held responsible for everything and penalized.

Such a social trend is very dangerous and allows vicious and unscrupulous women to trap innocent men and make a fortune by extorting him. Such psychological sensibilities also form the basis of gender obsessed laws (in favor of women) along with their purported misuse leading to double jeopardy for men in cases where innocent and victimized men are made to pay the price of the Initiator Syndrome.

Unaware that they are victims of a conspiracy theory, men mostly take things lying down which again leads to another social meme that abuse of men is OK. It does not take a while for things to escalate and no sooner the abuse reaches phenomenal levels rendering it unfit to be called abuse, it rather gets promoted to Castration.

Due to non-opposition, Castration of the Initiator looks like a Social Service. Adds fuel to the fire, the fact there is no concept of men's rights. Even highly placed constitutional, unconstitutional and extra-constitutional bodies feel that there is no need for men's rights because it is the initiator who is responsible for his abuse. Society refuses to take responsibility for its men with this Castrate Initiator Syndrome working in the background, whereas the society takes full responsibility of its women again with Castrated by the Initiator Syndrome working in background.

One more path leading to liberation of men is to stop taking initiatives and enjoy life. No initiation means no castration and slowly the reality of Castration of the Initiator being a social service will cease to exist and will disappear into oblivion.

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jinesh zaveri  - well written.     |59.182.31.xxx |08-07-2009 15:27:09 men are ok when women abuse male lot in general. infact they support women while they abuse male lot in general. women are simply not ok when in general also they are critisiced. infact they again abuse male lot in return. and males may switch sides. thus they are better strategised. males have been responsible for this day. Reply | Quote 1   0

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