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As explained in "Dismantle the structures", it is because men live in structures - they suffer because when the woman breaks the structures the man suffers. However, it is not easy to dismantle structures because it directly challenges the existing concept of male identity which revolves around the principles of PROTECTION and PROVISION in addition to bearing the PRIMARY FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY all of which have developed since years of social and mental hardwiring of the society.
Moreover, the above requirements make it mandatory for the man to be logical which in turn makes him predictable. It also puts an expectation on the man to be brave and valiant which make him egoistic. Such a structure makes the man highly vulnerable to being trapped and this is currently happening with men.
Also men are told, "Be a man", "Don't crib for small issues", "Live life King Size", et al. which follows of what I call the BSF Model wherein
- B stands for "Bloating the ego".
- S stands for "Sudden Crash" and
- F stands for "Final Locking"
The ego of men is bloated since childhood with emotional castration compounded with the statement that it is a man's world. And when the man tries to be a ‘real man', he is castrated, trapped and finally finished off.
Easy way out is to unlearn things and start to live life worm size, rather than king size. Be vague, unreasonable, demanding and not to build castles in air which are structured. Such a man will be very difficult for the woman to handle as she will not be in a position to plan to abuse the man and trap him.
In the unstructured regime the man is not a victim of the LOOKING GOOD SYNDROME and does not mind doing things challenging his logical analysis and thus he is not vulnerable and will enjoy his life as well rather than being crushed under the burden of responsibilities.
Live like an earthworm that can crawl into any corner and is unpredictable, crooked and invulnerable. Living life King Size is taxing for men, hence Live Life Worm Size.
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